Adding in Andrea since she's been on my mind. She is very aware and does what she can to blend in. She is concerned about what is done as far as seeming fully human and let's it effect her private life as well. This is entirely her decision and if she changes her mind, would have no trouble dropping the human persona. In other words, she cares about blending in but not about judgment.

She does very much want to be liked, valued, and loved.