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Steph Mu Ji ([personal profile] muji) wrote in [community profile] ways_back_room2011-01-07 06:50 am
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Daily Entertainment.

I am incredibly grumpy/irritable this morning. What do you do to improve your mood when you feel the same?

[identity profile] mm-spinelstar.livejournal.com 2011-01-07 12:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Aww, sweetie! *hugs* ♥

Here, have some cute kitties (http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/72474db08b/noisy-kittens-want-dinner?rel=player).

I usually keep some links handy, like YouTube videos that make me laugh, threads on love memes where people said nice things about me, or read comments on fanfic or art I did that people liked. Things that made deliriously and stupidly happy at the time. XD

Some of what I do depends on why I'm grumpy. If I'm feeling low on self-image, for example, lately I like singing Katy Perry's "Firework" (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QGJuMBdaqIw) at the top of my lungs while I drive to work.

Hope you feel better, hon! Sometimes grumpy is okay. Let it out!
yakalskovich: (Medieval)

[personal profile] yakalskovich 2011-01-07 12:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Let rip -- I just snark at people. That does make me feel either better or silly after a bit.
yakalskovich: (Into the blue...)

[personal profile] yakalskovich 2011-01-07 12:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep! Snark as such is not a bad thing.
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[personal profile] kd7sov 2011-01-07 12:53 pm (UTC)(link)
That is an excellent question. I'll let you know when I figure it out.

Oh, all right. First step, where applicable, is to close crackchat; those bweeps are annoying enough when you're in a good mood.

Beyond that, I have no consistent solution; sometimes I watch ridiculous AtLA music videos on Youtube, sometimes I review canon, sometimes I pace the living room.
oxfordtweed: Sam Tyler going over paperwork at his desk (Paperwork - Sam)

[personal profile] oxfordtweed 2011-01-07 12:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I watch ridiculous television shows like Black Books, The Young Ones, and The League of Gentlemen.

If those fail to make me smile, then there's clearly something seriously wrong.
camwyn: Me in a bomber jacket and jeans standing next to a green two-man North Andover Flight Academy helicopter. (Default)

[personal profile] camwyn 2011-01-07 01:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a couple of songs on my mp3 playlist that I set aside for this purpose. Praan is the lead contender. You may know it as the song from the Where The Hell Is Matt (2008) video. Which is a massive mood-booster as well.

If it's still a problem when I get home from work I tend to load up Fallout and punch mutants in the face a lot. Or something similar.
dynastessa: peter parker } the amazing spider-man (always prepared.)

[personal profile] dynastessa 2011-01-07 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Oooh, yes.

Back when I used to play WoW, punching monster-things was a very good form of stress-relief.

[identity profile] agoodshinkickin.livejournal.com 2011-01-07 06:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I love that song so much.
agonistes: a house in the shadow of two silos shaped like gramophone bells (filling in for sunshine)

[personal profile] agonistes 2011-01-07 01:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, there's non-silly:



And then there's extremely silly.
sardonicynic: stock | fashion ([ daria ] soul food)

[personal profile] sardonicynic 2011-01-07 07:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I picked up her latest album last week (all thanks to you, btw).

And oh, my. Amazing.
agonistes: a house in the shadow of two silos shaped like gramophone bells (big wheel keep on turning)

[personal profile] agonistes 2011-01-07 08:11 pm (UTC)(link)
FFF YAY YAY. Is she not the BEST???
sardonicynic: stock | fashion ([ rdb ] *wink*)

[personal profile] sardonicynic 2011-01-07 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
She is incredible.

(I am mostly unashamed to admit I was smiling on the inside when my purchase gained obvious cred with the guy behind the counter. Uh, mostly because he looked like a nerdier Joel McHale. But, shh.)
agonistes: a house in the shadow of two silos shaped like gramophone bells (in the morning)

[personal profile] agonistes 2011-01-08 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, if Jeff Winger approves of your life choices, you may be doing something right! Maybe. :D
ceitfianna: (flute player)

[personal profile] ceitfianna 2011-01-07 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I have an iTunes gift card and haven't known what music to get, but I know now.

Thank you. I'm going to pick up one of her albums and one of his. Oh and your last post about the poem was an amazing read.
Edited 2011-01-07 19:40 (UTC)
agonistes: (tamed by rock and roll)

[personal profile] agonistes 2011-01-07 08:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, hurray! I'm so glad. :D And thank you!
ceitfianna: (goddess with bird)

[personal profile] ceitfianna 2011-01-07 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I just picked up her newest album, but there's so much Wilco stuff. Where should I start?
agonistes: (searching for a home via chicago)

[personal profile] agonistes 2011-01-07 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Hm. Knowing you're into the stringier side of alt-country -- my first inclination is Sky Blue Sky, but if you want something with more jagged edges (and songs about being drunk) that's a little more rambunctious, go with Being There. The latter is eleven years older than the former. Sample a little on iTunes if you can!
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[personal profile] ceitfianna 2011-01-07 08:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you and yes, being able to preview is so helpful.
agonistes: a house in the shadow of two silos shaped like gramophone bells (filling in for sunshine)

[personal profile] agonistes 2011-01-07 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
It definitely is. Let me know how it turns out! :D
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[personal profile] makesthings 2011-01-07 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I went with Sky Blue Sky.

BELATED LIKE CRAZY HERE

[identity profile] lordoflorien.livejournal.com 2011-01-09 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
> And then there's extremely silly.

OH MY GOD, IS THERE ANYTHING THAT MAN CAN'T DO? *dies happily*

I completely and utterly believe that sparkles fly from his fingertips in Real Life.



(Also, mmm Mavis Staples. *shivers*)
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[personal profile] sdelmonte 2011-01-07 01:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I just let it pass, being a natural grump and all.
sardonicynic: stock | fashion ([ stock ] killed the radio star)

[personal profile] sardonicynic 2011-01-07 01:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I watch this video and cannot help but grin, at least a leetle.
dynastessa: peter parker } the amazing spider-man (about to lose it.)

[personal profile] dynastessa 2011-01-07 02:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Play ragey music. I have a playlist for such purposes, because - um. It happens often enough. :\

Also: writing out all your frustrations, then tearing the page to shreds sometimes helps. Even if it's kind of terrible for the environment. (Just put the bits into the recycling after so it can be remade into other paper-products!)

Um. What's also worked for me is taking it out on characters in writing. If I've had a particularly bad experience, I'll put a character through something similar and let them deal with it the way I would've liked to/let them FEEL THE BURN more than I did. Idk.

For me, I find that looking at adorable things, or make-you-smile videos only makes me angrier.

[identity profile] mm-spinelstar.livejournal.com 2011-01-07 02:18 pm (UTC)(link)
A valid point, I think. Sometimes if it's bad enough, the cute, pick-me-up kinda stuff doesn't help.

I like your writing stories suggestion. I've always had a bit of trouble doing anything creative when I'm upset, but interestingly, my sister writes her best smut fic after she and I have had a really bad fight.

Just sayin'. :3
dynastessa: peter parker } the amazing spider-man (a little yay of enthusiasm.)

[personal profile] dynastessa 2011-01-07 02:23 pm (UTC)(link)
And then when you're done being angry, you also get the rewarding feeling of accomplishing something!

It's kind of awesome. Angry + productive!

And if it sucks, you have no obligation whatsoever to show anyone. But if it's brilliant? Weeell, then.
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[personal profile] ceitfianna 2011-01-07 02:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Do something, go for a walk, write, hide in a book, but moving always helps me the most. Also going driving with loud music helps too. A change of scenery can do wonders depending on what's bothering you.

I hope you feel better.
Edited 2011-01-07 14:17 (UTC)

[identity profile] thewrittenfae.livejournal.com 2011-01-07 03:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Pie.

I was feeling that way until my boss showed up with a warm apple pie...and now all I feel is well fed...
gorgonfondness: (teacakes)

[personal profile] gorgonfondness 2011-01-07 04:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I bake something that requires me to beat the living shit down in it. Though most recipes will call that instruction kneading. Or I bake something that I know I love like chocolate chip cookies, brownies, or croissants.

I've got a super easy bread recipe if you like. Nothing makes you feel quite as good as the smell of bread baking in your oven. Except maybe that first taste of the bread with a little bit of butter or cherry jelly.

[identity profile] leeshajoy.livejournal.com 2011-01-07 06:06 pm (UTC)(link)
When possible, I go back to bed.

On that note, I'll be back later.

[identity profile] agoodshinkickin.livejournal.com 2011-01-07 06:41 pm (UTC)(link)
- Sleep
- Loud Music with a steady beat
- Watching some of my favorite vids on Youtube

[identity profile] cupenny.livejournal.com 2011-01-07 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Chocolate and/or fancy cup of coffee. >_> But don't just scarf either down- take a few minutes, eat/sip slowly, concentrate on and enjoy the flavors!

Or, I take a quick, 10 min break, and either listen to some music- closing my eyes and paying attention to each beat, riff and vocal in the song, or I do a 'quick' deep-breathing chakra meditation.

Any of the above helps me to concentrate on ~something~ else, and focus on something calming.


Also, the saying 'I knit so I don't kill people' very much applies to me. GREATLY.
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[personal profile] theresnodoor 2011-01-07 07:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Sims! Or vigorous cleaning. Or knitting while watching terrible movies.

[identity profile] abeautyqueen.livejournal.com 2011-01-07 08:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Stay quiet.

I tend to snark and insult when I'm irritable.